We interrupt your current programming to bring you back to reality after a ten year hiatus from any touch with reality and three millennia of utter confoundedness.
We lost touch with reality when we gained our heightened awareness of the situation we inherited. No fault of ours but we couldn't get over it. It's time to move on.
What is 'natural' for a sentient being?
It is natural for a sentient being to perceive reality on a scale that an animal cannot begin to imagine.
We have tried the nurture routine for three millennia. We have tried to train the animal to act like a human. It is not enough. The animal must become human. It is a painful, slow, belittling process to train the animal. It is best to cut through the inertia and stupour and get to the point. Thinking is natural for a human being. Men applying themselves to learn how to make love is human. All it takes is sentient thought to understand how a man can learn to make love. Thinking and loving coitus are natural for a sentient being. The conclusion is loving coitus is human.
The armed camps of the genders can thrash their way through but it is no answer. It remains armed camps and the stupour remains.
It was a necessary step to force the male gender to realize (admit, that is) what has been missing. Loving coitus. Loving coitus is the only route to clear away the stupour and armed camps. Loving coitus makes us human. Loving coitus is the final step in attaining our humanity.
Loving coitus creates equality and equitable treatment, not to mention love.
Training to love
There is only one reason that men would apply themselves to learn how to make love. By doing so, they are expressing their love for the feminine gender. They are training themselves to love. They are becoming human. Until they do so, they are not a loving race of sentient beings.
Training to remain an animal
While we talk about love and the finer quality characteristics, like honour, dignity, integrity, etc, we are trained to remain animals by inertia of history.
We are caught in the trap of past precedent.
It began for me as a riddle. What is wrong with humanity? I first realized what was wrong at an intuitive level. All I knew, at that point, was that a man's mindset was affected in the most awful manner by something that no one suspected. That has always been there for anyone that looked. That took forty years.
The next step was to connect the dots. That took fourteen books and fifteen years.
The last step has been to take all of the pieces of the puzzle and begin to fit them into a montage of what humanity can be.
The last piece of the puzzle that I have been able to fit into place is fusion. Another word for it is love. It is love as defined by a sentient race that knows what it is doing. I doubt I will be able to explain fusion/love to my own satisfaction in this lifetime. I guess, if it comes down to it, I will be content.
The previous interpretation of love was a dimwitted animal's view on something an animal could never understand. How to explain?
What we have done, up to this point, is fit love into the puzzle of an animal's existence. It never worked because love is not for animals. Love is for humans.