Perspectives

    After all of this, I realize what a mess I made of it.  I can't really blame myself.  The deceptions that prehumanity has adopted are staggering.  That it took me fifteen years to unravel three millennia of nonsense, make sense of it, and explain it in a relatively coherent manner is not surprising.
First, I had to start reviewing all of the usual suspects like money, corporations, religions, cultures, laws, edicts, etc to clear the decks of the usual excuses for our mad behaviour.  It took a while to rule them out as the root cause of our issues.  It became clear they are not the source of what is wrong with humanity.  They are only the results.
    Maybe the most concise way to look at it all is to consider laws.  Laws (as is also true with religions, cultural peer pressure, etc) are meant to train the animal to act like a Human.  That is only training Pavlov's Dog.  You can beat the shit out of a dog to train it not to do something - unless it snaps.  It does not make us Human, though it was probably a critical step towards gaining our Humanity.  In other words, we began to seek sense, especially as the conflict between an animal's perspective and a Human perspective began to arise.  It's just that we have not quite gotten there yet.  Instead, we remain blinded because of TLTSIA.
  In every instance, the perceived, superficial problems, the surface issues, of prehumanity that we attack daily add up to nothing.  We attack the results of the madness, not the source of the madness.  It only limits the madness until some sudden outburst when the howling animal snaps.  

    Prehumans derail the situation, not the corporations, religions, government, or cultures that are built.  The primary source of problems is prehumans.  The reason they remain prehuman is TLTSIA.  Not genetics.  The inertia of our past is based in TLTSIA.
Studying cultures and peer pressure were very revealing, as were religions and the way other organizations operate as prehuman herds.  I finally perceived something that led somewhere.  All of the superficial solutions (peer pressure, laws, religions) attempt to force an individual to act "good", in some vague definition that is supposed to represent Human behaviour.  This is the training of Pavlov's Dog.

        Organizations, including religions, governments, and laws, each has its own agenda and it has little to do with being "good".  Mostly, it amounts to remaining in power, which is one of the many substitutes for the sharing of ecstasy that never fill the void left by its absence. Our self-respect becomes compromised beyond repair for the reason that has dominated everything I have detailed for fifteen years, so, instead, we attempt to force the prehuman to act "good", instead.  That could never work.  That cannot free the Human from the chains of the animal.  

    It is not yet inherent.  Worse yet, it creates a facade, a lie that everyone has learned to accept while wallowing in the animal's stupour.

    Our internal outlook, our internal moral compass, has been incompatible with the face we show the world since TLTSIA first began to emerge.   (see Keeping Up Appearances)
Once self-respect is compromised, once the internal goals are corrupted away from the internal desire to respect oneself, the peer pressure, laws, moral haranguing to be good cannot compete.  The peer pressure within an organization towards greed wins out often enough, as the self-respect is slowly whittled way.  Most keep their heads down and attempt to keep so semblance of their tattered self-respect in tact.
Over the very long term, if one looks at the real history of humanity, the history that counts, it becomes clear that we are slowly convincing ourselves that we are no better than animals.  As we wash up on the shore of the male gender's failure without the slightest attempt to succeed wholly, as the failure becomes appallingly apparent, we have been reverting, more and more, to the animal.  As those that fail miserably rally others  to their madness, we accept more and more that we are only a beast.  The prime premise behind all theories of economics is everyone should be out for themselves.  The term is egocentrism or "It's all about me."  The prime goal of most laws is to train Pavlov's Dog to be "good" and never admit that the worst of the worst are leading the charge at the top of society.  Whip the lowlies if they are "bad", though their transgressions are minor.  The worst of the "bad" people are at the top of societies and seldom are accountable to laws.  Laws are as bad as religions for redirecting prehumanity to give up or turn ruthless in order to become successful at a substitute for providing ecstasy, such as greed, power, self-delusion beyond imagination.  External force could never resolve our problem.  It has to come from within the individual Human for the whole of a sane society.  Removing TLTSIA is the only way.
    We conclude, because of all of these factors whose tendrils stretch all the way back to the rutting animal, that there is no inherent, internal desire to be Human as a race (in the definition of Human that leads to the conclusion "Omigoodness!  We are Human!" rather than the prehuman definition of "We are only Human" in order to excuse beastly behaviour which confirms the animal's claws in our back).  Essentially, we have always been attempting to force a situation that would be natural for a Human being that knows how to love and seeks clarity in all things.  Once TLTSIA has been dismissed as the nonsense it is by fulfilling Loving Coitus, we can be Human. 
        Once I got past those studies and realized what was really going on, I could begin to seek out what was really wrong.  I could not have done it without rhoetry.  It has always been a matter of clarity for Humanity, clearing away the weeds in which the animal hides.
It is not about "good" and "bad", whose meanings vary wildly among prehumans and only have meaning for prehumans in the context of their missing Humanity.  In other words, yes a meteor crashing on your head is bad.  Humans will never consider each other bad, unless they are genetically compromised (which I question, at least, to some extent). 
    It is about maintaining one's self-respect.  This would be easy to do if men didn't begin to lose their self-respect as soon as they reach puberty and continues to crumble over a lifetime.  Self-respect is, actually, quite resilient if not confronted by something so central to our existence as TLTSIA and the gaping hole it causes in the Great Narrative of Humanity.
    Essentially, it is all about retaining Humanity's self-respect and it begins with men retaining theirs.  Self-respect is not easily compromised.  But, the absence of Loving Coitus has been inexorable in its ability to destroy self-respect, overwhelming resistance based on three millennia of inertia and TLTSIA.
Next for me to study, of course, came the demarcation between the genders, but I've talked enough about that elsewhere.  Misogyny and all of it refuse and the slow expansion of the madness into every other aspect of our existence in order to cut off any sentient thought on the matter, thus cutting off all sentient thought on any matter.
    The realization that Loving Coitus has remained absent and the awful effect of arriving at puberty under such conditions, the lifelong grind of accepting TLTSIA has continued to grind our Humanity to dust.  The reality of it all and the fact that no one had dared to mention the elephant in the room hit me around 2010. 
    The deceits, delusions, rationalizations, and paradigms of nonsense that have developed in the absence of Loving Coitus and the madness incurred by a sentient race that cannot find its way through to Loving Coitus are reinforced with each generation that reaches puberty and begins to make their excuses for failure and maintaining the coverup, accepting the baton of madness from the previous generation as adults reach physical maturity but never mental, conscious maturity.
Do you begin to see how complicated the journey has been?  Do you see why I become so impatient and furious, why I fumble the words so often?
    Inertia plays a big part in all of our past.  Past generations make their damaging marks which are adopted by the next generation (because virtually no one can think for themselves (the herd effect) and everyone begins running scared once they reach puberty to find it not at all as expected), once they have accepted the premise of failure after puberty. 
    Each generation, in its youth, attempts to break out of the maelstrom that continues to drag us down by rebelling as the race's noble goals continue to drown.  They have always achieved little or no success because we have always avoided one subject, Loving Coitus.  Because we have avoided it, we have not put our mental prowess to work to resolve the issue.  I did.  I resolved it.  See Explanations on ASP.
    We've chipped away at it in the most bizarre manner all along but never confronted the real problem.  Men have just made stuff up in its absence.  "Look over here.  Not over there!"  in order to distract, with all of the destructive consequences.  All because we couldn't get past the fact that the animal's enactment of coitus does not suit a Human race.  We know better and, yet, can't ever admit it.  The secret that is no secret to a sentient mind drives us mad.  The secret (TLTSIA) that, essentially, we are only hiding from ourselves.
       I can give a perfect instance of the trouble I encountered that took fifteen years to clear up due to our massive obstructions to clarity, starting with the secret that is no secret. 
    My elocution of Loving Coitus and its impact is that example.  I first could only describe it in its absence's negative effects.  I began by describing it as what was missing and, vaguely, how it had wrecked our existence.  I, of course, was nowhere near the term Loving Coitus yet or the realization of our desire for clarity or our ability to overcome that which we have been convinced was impossible to overcome (other than a pill which does not resolve anything).  All I had was vague hints accrued over a lifetime of never accepting the mad, cruel, ruthless way in which we proceed.  The madness never rang true for me. 
    I could only describe it in terms of the awful lack.  I described it by its awful effect on men (which, also, was negative).   This makes sense since I knew what was missing but not what it portended, except in the vaguest terms.  I knew it crippled the male gender but only in the vaguest terms of what was wrong, not what remained absent.  The only hint I ever had in that direction was the best of women, which, unless blunted by the male gender, stand out like a beacon.  Even some that engage the male gender do so.  That is utterly amazing! 
    Besides, negatives are the prehuman way.  Just look at what stirs folks.  Look at the posts and sites that are driving a large portion of the race to embrace madness today.  It is all around you in bold, capitalized type nowadays.  Ludicrously, it is what drives prehumanity and drives it insane.  The prehuman loves to froth at the mouth.
A sentient race,  by definition, seeks clarity.  Deceiving itself is a disaster.  It  causes confusion and despair.  Any attempt at clarity is shattered.  The secret that is no secret is just so.
I spent a great deal of time and rage on men.  I spent a lifetime becoming so, due to the awful attitudes of so many men.  Oh, no, I won't leave women out this time.  I watched the same awful attitude spill over into some women.  What is truly remarkable is how little it affects women but, yes, of course, it can even affect women.  They can drown in the same filth that men created.  Some, that are influenced by dominating mad men, learn to hate with the best of them.
        What has made it so confusing and difficult to isolate and ascertain is that this has been going on for three millennia.  We have riddled our existence with nonsense for as long as we attempted to put two words together.
No matter the case, whether men become full-on conmen, scamming everyone they meet, or pompous witless asses, or become completely humbled and/or defeated by life, there is something wrong with them.  Something is virtually always missing.  It is their self-respect, which cannot recover from the realization that they cannot love as Nature and our sentience have made crystal clear was possible for a sentient race.  All that do not succeed are compromised by TLTSIA. 
    Nature provided all of the tools necessary to do so but, because of inertia, we have continued to look the other way.  Self-respect wears away for a man over a lifetime as they never come to terms with the full realization of what is wrong.  Few get beyond, "is it just me?", amidst a growing wall of confusion.   The confusion, the uncertainty, grows over a lifetime. 
    Of course, the quirks of the individual run the gamut, as should be expected, making it all the more difficult to perceive through the fog.  The wide spectrum of quirks hides the missing element, the source of insanity, behind millennia of coverup.  That only adds to the confusion and complexity of the puzzle.  No man remains unscathed, no matter their success or failure in other areas, there is something less about men.  There lies the problem.  The compensations adopted, in the absence of a perceived resolution, devastates the male gender and makes it impossible for the male gender to move forward in a sane manner.  Just admitting the failure would be a huge relief.  The obscurity forced upon the real problem blinds the whole of the human race as to what is real.
I painted it poorly though.  Still? 
    I harped on Loving Coitus because it is essential.  It is not that every human needs to experience Loving Coitus.  It is not that every man has to prove himself by being successful at Loving Coitus.  It is that every man needs to know in his bones that he can succeed at Loving Coitus, if the Human situation and desire present themselves.  There should never be any question in any man's mind when it comes to coitus.  The question is now in every man's mind, buried deep away from the light of day.
    Loving Coitus will release the male gender from its burden, thus making the relationships between men and women copacetic, equal and equitable.  I call it Fusion.  That may not sound like a big deal to you but it will transform human existence into something Human.
    It is beyond bold to say that Loving Coitus can exist after three millennia of prehumanity stumbling around but, keep in mind, we never really faced the problem.  No one has ever wanted to talk about it, much less confront it.  You can see it in the stumbling and careful wording of any text on the subject (including my earlier works).  It is an incredibly difficult circumstance for any man to confront in the face of his own failure and the inertia of the animal to never admit there is anything worng.  The tendency is to try to justify the way it is because there appears to be no possibility of success at transforming coitus into a loving event.  Three millennia of failure seems to be conclusive.  It is not.
     First, we need to admit and accept that something is missing.  That alone will make a huge difference.
Men have been in hiding since the first day that they realized that coitus was not all it could be/should be and that it was up to men to change it.  They become desperate as it sinks in over a lifetime.  We call it midlife crisis in the west with the most awful results for all of humanity.  They have remained at a loss as to what to do about it for three millennia.  The distortions that has caused are virtually endless.
        Women have rationalized, also, of course.  They took on the necessity of bearing the burden of men's discomfort and dissatisfaction.  That was turned it into a religious belief that they must always bear the burden.  Excuse me for excusing women but, if they had not borne our burden as only a Human could, we would be in much worse shape.
       Is our current route through existence sustainable?  No.  Does it lead to disaster after disaster?  Yes.
Do I have all of the answers?  No.  Have I, at least, pointed the way to how the human race takes its final step into accepting the desire for clarity and rids itself of the most awful delusions, deceptions, and destructive tendencies?  Yes.
    I do believe that Fusion is something special.  I'll leave it at that.

Acting like a prehuman

    I am beginning to realize characteristics that define the prehuman.  Maybe the most important is a shallow view of existence.  It is very similar to how an animal must think.

    A life of rote is another, even though, on occasion, it is masked with gesticulation and bombast.  As I mention elsewhere, it seems that we can't live without rote but a life of rote is something else.

    I see the same trends in the growth of dimwitted technology and I don't mean technology that is built with a dim wit.  I mean technology in which the dim wit is built in.  As high a regard as I have for google's intent, it started the ball rolling by realizing the profit potential of tracking people.  AI is another.  

    These types of technologies really think they are comprehending the details of humanity when, just like prehumanity itself, it is only comprehending the surface issues.  Worse yet, it reinforces them, because there is profit in encouraging them.  That may define prehuman best.

    Another bugaboo I have with prehumanity is the way in which it has raised science to the level of religion.  Believe!  Believe!  Even when the results are cracked.  If they are based on anything referred to as the scientific method, one must believe.  I can't count the times that science has been sold just like religion.  The only difference is that you can't undermine religion with rational thought.  Religion is not a rational thought.  Period.

I am really beginning to think that this is one of my best explanations of the state of prehumanity, even with the diatribe above, which I hope does not detract.